Scarlett was used to men asking her to marry them, men much more attractive than Charles Hamilton, and men who had more finesse than to propose at a barbecue when she had more important matters on her mind.
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While Shaq often pounds away at a defense to score points, smaller players have to rely on finesse to find open shots.
Peyton Manning showed finesse as he scrambled out of the pocket and threw a pass to the receiver.